Sunday, January 29, 2012

On Call Life #1

So I'm getting supplies for an oxygenator changeout when I get a page saying "patient coding, need ECMO now". I run up to the unit and its a madhouse in the patient room. The other surgeon won't get here in time so I had to scrub in with the fellow to put this patient on. Everyone is stressed and anxious. The fellow and I are barking out orders. We ask the RN for clamps for the tubing. The RN says "Take the big ones, the small ones doesn't work as well." And with precision timing I replied, "That's what she said." The entire room burst out laughing. Tension eased. Patient lives. #OnCallLife

A simple 'How are you?'

My manager went off on me earlier this week.  And it seemingly came out of nowhere.  I was getting verbally thrashed by my superior for something that I failed to do.  Note: I'm still new to the job and I was never told that it had to be done.  I go back to the OR feeling like a 4 yr old that just showed his parents his a bad report card and I just stole that last cookie from the cookie jar before dinner and used said cookie to write on the walls.  Yup, I felt that small.

But I began to think, what was the real reason behind the blow up?

When I saw my manager in the office I said I wanted to talk to him and I just asked one question. . .

"How are you?"

I asked it in a way that I was genuine and sincere and I was going to listen to your answer.  And I found out alot of things going on in his life which basically was the reason for the blow up.  I had no idea that he going through that much stuff.  With his home, family, career, if you heard what I heard him say, you would understand why he was a powder keg pressure cooker about to explode.

Which brings me to the title, "A simple 'How are you?'"

When was the last time you genuinely and sincerely asked someone how they were and actively listened to what they tell you?

When was the last time someone asked you how you were and you told them instead of saying the oh so common "I'm cool/good/aight/straight. You"?

Such a simple question with unlimited potential.

Keep on evolving people.


Here's to you,
Mr. Robinson

Monday, January 9, 2012

It's been a long time. . .I shouldn't have left you

It's been a long time, I shouldn't have left you. . . without a dope blog to read to!!!!!

What?  You thought I was talking about someone else? HA!  You crazy!

I haven't wrote a blog post since August and since then ALOT of things have transpired.  I'm going to do better with this blog.  It may not be daily or weekly, but whenever I feel compelled to write something or if something is on my mind that I want to share, I will blog it.

Until then, Keep on evolving people.

Here's to you,

Mr. Robinson